Emotional connection with a child born by a surrogate mother

During the life of the child, the parents are connected by strong bonds. Psychological communication awakens in the parents a calling to take care of their baby, educate it, engage in its development. It is this connection in a crisis that causes the child to instinctively seek protection from his parents. It is important for the formation of correct self-esteem, a sense of security and general well-being.

Studies have shown that attachment between parents and children is formed long before the birth of the baby. A child gets acquainted within his mother all nine months of pregnancy. He recognizes her voice, feels the mood, catches the breath and the rhythm of the heart, and the mom from the activity and movements determines how comfortable the baby is and whether it is happy or not. There is a theory of prenatal attachment, which says that this connection plays an important role in the healthy course of pregnancy, childbirth and further interaction between mother and baby.

How to be in the case when the child has a surrogate mother and the baby does not have affection for her biological parents during intrauterine development? We have collected some advices and recommendations that will help to minimize the psychological transition of a newborn from a surrogate mother to his parents and establish a strong attachment.

As future parents do not have the opportunity during the pregnancy to fully communicate with the baby, it is important to take a number of actions that will allow the child to emotionally accept and establish a mental connection with him. First of all, it is worth remembering that the priority needs to be the needs of the newborn, and not the desires of the parents and it is necessary to take all possible steps so that the baby does not experience shock in the emotional transition. The main things to pay attention to are:

1. Most couples go for the surrogacy motherhood program, having passed the path of unsuccessful struggle with infertility. Many continue to be depressed because of the dream of a complete family. Experts recommend concentrating their thoughts and emotions not on past failures, but on the forthcoming joy of the birth of the long-awaited child, which will allow them to concentrate on the needs of the baby and speed up the establishment of an emotional connection.
2. Psychologists advise prospective parents to participate as much as possible in the life of a surrogate mother during pregnancy. Joint walks and classes, visiting a doctor, buying things for the baby and decorating his room stimulate the emotional acceptance of the child and form his connection with future parents. In addition, the baby will remember the voices of his parents and will easily recognize them after birth.
3. A surrogate mother can greatly assist in preparing for an emotional transfer. Specialists recommend sharing with parents the music that she listened during pregnancy, give something that will smell familiar to the baby, for example, a soft toy with which she fell asleep. Having come to a new home, the child will be surrounded by sounds and smells familiar to him from the prenatal period and is easier to adapt in the new environment.
4. Especially important period for emotional transfer - the first minutes after the birth of the baby. Ideally, a surrogate mother should take a newborn so that he or she feels the sounds, smells and touches he is acquainted with, and give it to his parents. After this, biological parents are encouraged to contact the child "skin to skin" as often as possible. This is the most powerful way to stimulate the creation of an emotional connection.

Emotional affection does not come at once, parents and the baby need to get used to each other. It should be remembered that communication is formed every day in caring for and caring for the baby, joint pastime and walks. Regardless of who carried the child, caring and loving parents will definitely have a strong emotional connection with their baby.

During the life of the child, the parents are connected by strong bonds. Psychological communication awakens in the parents a calling to take care of their baby, educate it, engage in its development. It is this connection in a crisis that causes the child to instinctively seek protection from his parents. It is important for the formation of correct self-esteem, a sense of security and general well-being.

Studies have shown that attachment between parents and children is formed long before the birth of the baby. A child gets acquainted within his mother all nine months of pregnancy. He recognizes her voice, feels the mood, catches the breath and the rhythm of the heart, and the mom from the activity and movements determines how comfortable the baby is and whether it is happy or not. There is a theory of prenatal attachment, which says that this connection plays an important role in the healthy course of pregnancy, childbirth and further interaction between mother and baby.

How to be in the case when the child has a surrogate mother and the baby does not have affection for her biological parents during intrauterine development? We have collected some advices and recommendations that will help to minimize the psychological transition of a newborn from a surrogate mother to his parents and establish a strong attachment.

As future parents do not have the opportunity during the pregnancy to fully communicate with the baby, it is important to take a number of actions that will allow the child to emotionally accept and establish a mental connection with him. First of all, it is worth remembering that the priority needs to be the needs of the newborn, and not the desires of the parents and it is necessary to take all possible steps so that the baby does not experience shock in the emotional transition. The main things to pay attention to are:

1. Most couples go for the surrogacy motherhood program, having passed the path of unsuccessful struggle with infertility. Many continue to be depressed because of the dream of a complete family. Experts recommend concentrating their thoughts and emotions not on past failures, but on the forthcoming joy of the birth of the long-awaited child, which will allow them to concentrate on the needs of the baby and speed up the establishment of an emotional connection.
2. Psychologists advise prospective parents to participate as much as possible in the life of a surrogate mother during pregnancy. Joint walks and classes, visiting a doctor, buying things for the baby and decorating his room stimulate the emotional acceptance of the child and form his connection with future parents. In addition, the baby will remember the voices of his parents and will easily recognize them after birth.
3. A surrogate mother can greatly assist in preparing for an emotional transfer. Specialists recommend sharing with parents the music that she listened during pregnancy, give something that will smell familiar to the baby, for example, a soft toy with which she fell asleep. Having come to a new home, the child will be surrounded by sounds and smells familiar to him from the prenatal period and is easier to adapt in the new environment.
4. Especially important period for emotional transfer - the first minutes after the birth of the baby. Ideally, a surrogate mother should take a newborn so that he or she feels the sounds, smells and touches he is acquainted with, and give it to his parents. After this, biological parents are encouraged to contact the child "skin to skin" as often as possible. This is the most powerful way to stimulate the creation of an emotional connection.

Emotional affection does not come at once, parents and the baby need to get used to each other. It should be remembered that communication is formed every day in caring for and caring for the baby, joint pastime and walks. Regardless of who carried the child, caring and loving parents will definitely have a strong emotional connection with their baby.

During the life of the child, the parents are connected by strong bonds. Psychological communication awakens in the parents a calling to take care of their baby, educate it, engage in its development. It is this connection in a crisis that causes the child to instinctively seek protection from his parents. It is important for the formation of correct self-esteem, a sense of security and general well-being.

Studies have shown that attachment between parents and children is formed long before the birth of the baby. A child gets acquainted within his mother all nine months of pregnancy. He recognizes her voice, feels the mood, catches the breath and the rhythm of the heart, and the mom from the activity and movements determines how comfortable the baby is and whether it is happy or not. There is a theory of prenatal attachment, which says that this connection plays an important role in the healthy course of pregnancy, childbirth and further interaction between mother and baby.

How to be in the case when the child has a surrogate mother and the baby does not have affection for her biological parents during intrauterine development? We have collected some advices and recommendations that will help to minimize the psychological transition of a newborn from a surrogate mother to his parents and establish a strong attachment.

As future parents do not have the opportunity during the pregnancy to fully communicate with the baby, it is important to take a number of actions that will allow the child to emotionally accept and establish a mental connection with him. First of all, it is worth remembering that the priority needs to be the needs of the newborn, and not the desires of the parents and it is necessary to take all possible steps so that the baby does not experience shock in the emotional transition. The main things to pay attention to are:

1. Most couples go for the surrogacy motherhood program, having passed the path of unsuccessful struggle with infertility. Many continue to be depressed because of the dream of a complete family. Experts recommend concentrating their thoughts and emotions not on past failures, but on the forthcoming joy of the birth of the long-awaited child, which will allow them to concentrate on the needs of the baby and speed up the establishment of an emotional connection.
2. Psychologists advise prospective parents to participate as much as possible in the life of a surrogate mother during pregnancy. Joint walks and classes, visiting a doctor, buying things for the baby and decorating his room stimulate the emotional acceptance of the child and form his connection with future parents. In addition, the baby will remember the voices of his parents and will easily recognize them after birth.
3. A surrogate mother can greatly assist in preparing for an emotional transfer. Specialists recommend sharing with parents the music that she listened during pregnancy, give something that will smell familiar to the baby, for example, a soft toy with which she fell asleep. Having come to a new home, the child will be surrounded by sounds and smells familiar to him from the prenatal period and is easier to adapt in the new environment.
4. Especially important period for emotional transfer - the first minutes after the birth of the baby. Ideally, a surrogate mother should take a newborn so that he or she feels the sounds, smells and touches he is acquainted with, and give it to his parents. After this, biological parents are encouraged to contact the child "skin to skin" as often as possible. This is the most powerful way to stimulate the creation of an emotional connection.

Emotional affection does not come at once, parents and the baby need to get used to each other. It should be remembered that communication is formed every day in caring for and caring for the baby, joint pastime and walks. Regardless of who carried the child, caring and loving parents will definitely have a strong emotional connection with their baby.

During the life of the child, the parents are connected by strong bonds. Psychological communication awakens in the parents a calling to take care of their baby, educate it, engage in its development. It is this connection in a crisis that causes the child to instinctively seek protection from his parents. It is important for the formation of correct self-esteem, a sense of security and general well-being.

Studies have shown that attachment between parents and children is formed long before the birth of the baby. A child gets acquainted within his mother all nine months of pregnancy. He recognizes her voice, feels the mood, catches the breath and the rhythm of the heart, and the mom from the activity and movements determines how comfortable the baby is and whether it is happy or not. There is a theory of prenatal attachment, which says that this connection plays an important role in the healthy course of pregnancy, childbirth and further interaction between mother and baby.

How to be in the case when the child has a surrogate mother and the baby does not have affection for her biological parents during intrauterine development? We have collected some advices and recommendations that will help to minimize the psychological transition of a newborn from a surrogate mother to his parents and establish a strong attachment.

As future parents do not have the opportunity during the pregnancy to fully communicate with the baby, it is important to take a number of actions that will allow the child to emotionally accept and establish a mental connection with him. First of all, it is worth remembering that the priority needs to be the needs of the newborn, and not the desires of the parents and it is necessary to take all possible steps so that the baby does not experience shock in the emotional transition. The main things to pay attention to are:

1. Most couples go for the surrogacy motherhood program, having passed the path of unsuccessful struggle with infertility. Many continue to be depressed because of the dream of a complete family. Experts recommend concentrating their thoughts and emotions not on past failures, but on the forthcoming joy of the birth of the long-awaited child, which will allow them to concentrate on the needs of the baby and speed up the establishment of an emotional connection.
2. Psychologists advise prospective parents to participate as much as possible in the life of a surrogate mother during pregnancy. Joint walks and classes, visiting a doctor, buying things for the baby and decorating his room stimulate the emotional acceptance of the child and form his connection with future parents. In addition, the baby will remember the voices of his parents and will easily recognize them after birth.
3. A surrogate mother can greatly assist in preparing for an emotional transfer. Specialists recommend sharing with parents the music that she listened during pregnancy, give something that will smell familiar to the baby, for example, a soft toy with which she fell asleep. Having come to a new home, the child will be surrounded by sounds and smells familiar to him from the prenatal period and is easier to adapt in the new environment.
4. Especially important period for emotional transfer - the first minutes after the birth of the baby. Ideally, a surrogate mother should take a newborn so that he or she feels the sounds, smells and touches he is acquainted with, and give it to his parents. After this, biological parents are encouraged to contact the child "skin to skin" as often as possible. This is the most powerful way to stimulate the creation of an emotional connection.

Emotional affection does not come at once, parents and the baby need to get used to each other. It should be remembered that communication is formed every day in caring for and caring for the baby, joint pastime and walks. Regardless of who carried the child, caring and loving parents will definitely have a strong emotional connection with their baby.

During the life of the child, the parents are connected by strong bonds. Psychological communication awakens in the parents a calling to take care of their baby, educate it, engage in its development. It is this connection in a crisis that causes the child to instinctively seek protection from his parents. It is important for the formation of correct self-esteem, a sense of security and general well-being.

Studies have shown that attachment between parents and children is formed long before the birth of the baby. A child gets acquainted within his mother all nine months of pregnancy. He recognizes her voice, feels the mood, catches the breath and the rhythm of the heart, and the mom from the activity and movements determines how comfortable the baby is and whether it is happy or not. There is a theory of prenatal attachment, which says that this connection plays an important role in the healthy course of pregnancy, childbirth and further interaction between mother and baby.

How to be in the case when the child has a surrogate mother and the baby does not have affection for her biological parents during intrauterine development? We have collected some advices and recommendations that will help to minimize the psychological transition of a newborn from a surrogate mother to his parents and establish a strong attachment.

As future parents do not have the opportunity during the pregnancy to fully communicate with the baby, it is important to take a number of actions that will allow the child to emotionally accept and establish a mental connection with him. First of all, it is worth remembering that the priority needs to be the needs of the newborn, and not the desires of the parents and it is necessary to take all possible steps so that the baby does not experience shock in the emotional transition. The main things to pay attention to are:

1. Most couples go for the surrogacy motherhood program, having passed the path of unsuccessful struggle with infertility. Many continue to be depressed because of the dream of a complete family. Experts recommend concentrating their thoughts and emotions not on past failures, but on the forthcoming joy of the birth of the long-awaited child, which will allow them to concentrate on the needs of the baby and speed up the establishment of an emotional connection.
2. Psychologists advise prospective parents to participate as much as possible in the life of a surrogate mother during pregnancy. Joint walks and classes, visiting a doctor, buying things for the baby and decorating his room stimulate the emotional acceptance of the child and form his connection with future parents. In addition, the baby will remember the voices of his parents and will easily recognize them after birth.
3. A surrogate mother can greatly assist in preparing for an emotional transfer. Specialists recommend sharing with parents the music that she listened during pregnancy, give something that will smell familiar to the baby, for example, a soft toy with which she fell asleep. Having come to a new home, the child will be surrounded by sounds and smells familiar to him from the prenatal period and is easier to adapt in the new environment.
4. Especially important period for emotional transfer - the first minutes after the birth of the baby. Ideally, a surrogate mother should take a newborn so that he or she feels the sounds, smells and touches he is acquainted with, and give it to his parents. After this, biological parents are encouraged to contact the child "skin to skin" as often as possible. This is the most powerful way to stimulate the creation of an emotional connection.

Emotional affection does not come at once, parents and the baby need to get used to each other. It should be remembered that communication is formed every day in caring for and caring for the baby, joint pastime and walks. Regardless of who carried the child, caring and loving parents will definitely have a strong emotional connection with their baby.

It is this connection in a crisis that causes the child to instinctively seek protection from his parents. It is important for the formation of correct self-esteem, a sense of security and general well-being.

Studies have shown that attachment between parents and children is formed long before the birth of the baby. A child gets acquainted within his mother all nine months of pregnancy. He recognizes her voice, feels the mood, catches the breath and the rhythm of the heart, and the mom from the activity and movements determines how comfortable the baby is and whether it is happy or not. There is a theory of prenatal attachment, which says that this connection plays an important role in the healthy course of pregnancy, childbirth and further interaction between mother and baby.

How to be in the case when the child has a surrogate mother and the baby does not have affection for her biological parents during intrauterine development? We have collected some advices and recommendations that will help to minimize the psychological transition of a newborn from a surrogate mother to his parents and establish a strong attachment.

As future parents do not have the opportunity during the pregnancy to fully communicate with the baby, it is important to take a number of actions that will allow the child to emotionally accept and establish a mental connection with him. First of all, it is worth remembering that the priority needs to be the needs of the newborn, and not the desires of the parents and it is necessary to take all possible steps so that the baby does not experience shock in the emotional transition. The main things to pay attention to are:

1. Most couples go for the surrogacy motherhood program, having passed the path of unsuccessful struggle with infertility. Many continue to be depressed because of the dream of a complete family. Experts recommend concentrating their thoughts and emotions not on past failures, but on the forthcoming joy of the birth of the long-awaited child, which will allow them to concentrate on the needs of the baby and speed up the establishment of an emotional connection.
2. Psychologists advise prospective parents to participate as much as possible in the life of a surrogate mother during pregnancy. Joint walks and classes, visiting a doctor, buying things for the baby and decorating his room stimulate the emotional acceptance of the child and form his connection with future parents. In addition, the baby will remember the voices of his parents and will easily recognize them after birth.
3. A surrogate mother can greatly assist in preparing for an emotional transfer. Specialists recommend sharing with parents the music that she listened during pregnancy, give something that will smell familiar to the baby, for example, a soft toy with which she fell asleep. Having come to a new home, the child will be surrounded by sounds and smells familiar to him from the prenatal period and is easier to adapt in the new environment.
4. Especially important period for emotional transfer - the first minutes after the birth of the baby. Ideally, a surrogate mother should take a newborn so that he or she feels the sounds, smells and touches he is acquainted with, and give it to his parents. After this, biological parents are encouraged to contact the child "skin to skin" as often as possible. This is the most powerful way to stimulate the creation of an emotional connection.

Emotional affection does not come at once, parents and the baby need to get used to each other. It should be remembered that communication is formed every day in caring for and caring for the baby, joint pastime and walks. Regardless of who carried the child, caring and loving parents will definitely have a strong emotional connection with their baby.